To be honest, learning to stop buying things you don’t need is not always easy. After all, who doesn’t love a great deal? I always get a bit of a thrill when I am out looking for something and find there’s a great discount or even clearance price on it. Somehow, it makes the purchase all the more fun.
But the truth is, that great deal is only a great deal if you actually need the item. I’ve been more than a little guilty of purchasing items because they were “such a great deal”, I’m talking a 90% marked down. At the time, I’d convince myself that I knew I could do something with it, even though I was not sure what.
The harsh reality is, more often than not, that item just sat in a drawer or in a box somewhere, never used. So instead of scoring some great 90% savings, all I did was waste money on a needless item that I had no clear idea what I would use it for.
Worse than that, I wasted time and created unnecessary clutter and stress for myself.
It took me some time to realize that spending isn’t saving if you don’t really need it. As I sought to simplify my life, I learned that I was doing a lot more than wasting money. I was wasting valuable time in taking care of items I didn’t need and I was creating unnecessary clutter and stress in my life.
Five Ways to Stop Buying Stuff You Don’t Need
Breaking that shopping habit was not always easy, but these are the five things I focused on to help me stop buying things I didn’t need and decide when to pass up that great deal!
If you want to stop buying things you don’t need, here’s how!
1. Decide Whether You Would Buy the Item If It Was Full Price
If you are purchasing something just because it’s on sale, even if you get some use out of the item, chances are you won’t really be happy with your purchase. In fact, you’ll most likely become quickly become dissatisfied with your purchase. This is because you should only ever purchase items that you truly love and have a true use for.
Don’t purchase something just to save a couple of bucks, in the long run, you end up wasting those dollars you saved. A $50 dress marked down to $10 that you don’t wear, is $10 wasted, not $40 saved.
Before each purchase you make, start asking yourself whether you would be willing to pay full price for it. If the answer is no — don’t buy it!
2. Ask Yourself Whether You Need the Item
Sometimes the best way to stop buying things you don’t need is to simply ask yourself before the purchase if it is something you need.
If you are purchasing an item just because it is a great deal, are you really getting a great deal? A great deal means getting the most out of your money. However, spending your hard-earned money on something you don’t really need is never a great deal.
Not only are you wasting your hard-earned money on something you have no need for, but you are also going to incur wasted time and space in storing the item until you can figure out a need. This, my friend, is a lose, lose. If you don’t need it, save your money and your time and pass up that “great deal”
3. Only Purchase What You Have Room For
A friend offers you her grandmother’s antique desk for $20. The desk has a solid construction and you’re sure it’s worth quite a bit more money than $20.00. The problem is, you have no room in your house to put it. You buy the desk and decide to store it in the garage because one day you will have the room.
Chances are 10 years later you are still going to be storing that desk. You’ll have spent a whole lot more than $20 in your time and energy storing and moving that desk around. At this point, that desk is doing nothing more than sitting around, unused, creating clutter.
Before making a purchase start asking yourself where you will store the item in your home. If you have no room for it, do not buy it.
4. Pass on Anything That’s Close, but Not Close Enough
One of the worst purchases I ever made was to purchase a $250 camera for $125. At the time, it was a very nice camera.
So why was it such a bad deal? Because I really wanted a different camera that was more than double the cost of the $250 camera.
I thought purchasing the camera was a good idea because it was such a great deal. I really thought the less expensive camera would work until I could afford the camera I really wanted.
The camera was nice enough to make me forget about the camera I really wanted for a while. But before long, I realized that this camera just didn’t have the features I really wanted. I was never truly satisfied because it was not what I really wanted and I regretted the purchase.
Once I got the camera I really did want, I regretted the original purchase all the more. The other camera never got used and just created unnecessary clutter.
I’ve learned that it’s better to pay full price for exactly what I want instead of half-price for almost what I want.
In the long run, it’s worth it to save up a little longer to get what you want. This will help you to stop buying things you don’t want!
5. Do Not Shop as a Form of Entertainment or to Relieve Stress
I am a big bargain seeker. I do my best to get the best possible deal on the items I need. But when I first started looking at ways to simplify, I was not necessarily spending less.
I loved learning about simplifying and saving money, and it almost became a game, a form of entertainment to see how much I could save. As a result, I would purchase things that I did not need and justify those purchases based on the fact that I was getting such a great deal.
One day, a friend who had a daughter a few years younger than mine, mentioned her daughter had outgrown most of her clothes. I offered her the clothes my daughter had outgrown. When I went into the garage to locate the boxes of the outgrown clothing, I was literally ashamed at the sheer amount of boxes filled with the clothing I had purchased.
Many of the items still with the price tags on them showing the incredible sales, I had gotten. Of course, this meant my daughter had never even worn the items. I had gotten into the habit of purchasing items just because they were on sale and I was having tremendous fun getting all those great deals.
Needless to say, I was also wasting a lot of money. There are so much better and less expensive ways to have fun and reduce stress. Do not purchase items as a form of entertainment or to relieve stress in your life. When you do this, you actually end up creating more stress in your life.
Spending isn’t saving if you’re purchasing something that you wouldn’t normally buy, do not need, have room for, is not what you really want, or as a form of entertainment or stress relief. The simple truth is these things only act to increase your stress. Start simplifying your life today by passing up that “great deal”
Find more tips on creating intentional shopping habits here.
What would you add to the list as a reason to pass up a great deal?
Lamora says
These are so true. I think of myself as pretty thrifty, but I definitely fall into the bad habit of buying the less expensive replacement item and then regretting it. That is a great reminder.
KristalMarie says
I was right there with you Lamora! It can seem like buying the less expensive item is saving us money, but in the long run it costs us more. Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment!
Patty Noreen says
My way is always asking is this a “want” or a need . Wants are only satisfied if all the needs are met…. I may want chocolate milk but I really need milk. So buy what you need and safe up for what you want and then ask all of the above questions and make sound decisions. Living life with less is really more…. more money in the bank , more room in your space and more freedom to pursue life with out all the stuff.
Another great thought is if something happened to you what will the person that has to clean out your stuff do with it. If the answer is just toss it…then maybe we really should not buy it in the first place. Make life easier on your off spring or your friends… and in the END they will thank you.
KristalMarie says
Those are great points Patty, thanks for sharing. I agree, we seldom think about the impact our stuff can have on others, especially if someone has to clean it all out. We benefit ourselves and those we love when we learn to stop buying things we really don’t need. Thanks for taking the time to comment!